Uggh, my friend, whose name is the house in? Either way, bad move, as it seems you know. When it comes down to the legailty of it (and here's where the REAL lies start flying) you will look like a deserter and you wanted the D. I'll bet the farm that gets twisted on you.

Lesson to all, the WAS wants "space" fine, tell them they may leave and get all the space they want.

How is your W's 'mental disorder' against you? Just in the DB sense?

And finally yes, we are "back together" coming up on 2 months. We still live seperately, but she is eager for me to live with her. My sitch involved her leaving me for a OP so it's quite a bit different in some repects. crazy However, the common similarity is that like most WAS, they'll waffle back and forth from time. Once mine saw I was done and Elvis left the building, along with some intervention from her friends and family, she went full tilt on acting upon what she says she wants.


Me 35/XW 33
S13 & S12
M: 10/17/98
OM & S: 07/08
D final 06/09/09
12/03/09 - 06/13/10 "Piercing"
06/13/10: Engaged to Re-marry 10/17/10
06/25/10: Expecting baby #3 2/14/11