New here myself TD, this is a good place to be. You will get lots of help.
General opinion here is that you can't be giving WAW anything like that, it is seen by them as weak and pursuing. It's like, "just read this and you'll realize how stupid you were leaving me".
It's not what they want to hear.
Having said that, I'm currently reading the 5 Love Languages by Gary Chapman and finding it fantastic. Yeah IF I asked my WAW to read it, I'm sure she would find lots in it that would strike a chord with her about our R.
But I'm listening to the advice of the people here who have Been there, Done that.
Stay Strong.
H: 44 W: 42 Married: 23 years Bomb: 16/07/2009 PA Confirmed: 16/01/2010 Over it & working on ME: Feb'ish 2010