Don't know where to post this.

[loveherstill]

Dudess,

I agree with you. I am trying to buy time until she starts her IC. She is very reactive but respects people she perceives as having authority. She will not back out of C once she starts unless the C tells her not to come any more.

She may, however, refuse to go in the first place if I throw her out of the house before she starts.

I did tell her if she wants OM she should go be with him. She restated that she is not sure what she wants. I said sorry you feel that way, let me know when you do.

I will be ready to get tougher once she is in IC.