Dude, i'll have to agree...it's time to talk to your son. It's obviously having an adverse effect on him.

Not to mention that and reconciliation must be based on honesty.

You have to be careful. For example, I found out last week that who I suspected my XW was having an affair with was who she was having an affair with. She lied to me for well over a year, but my gut told me something was not right. Go with your instincts and talk to your son.


Formerly SGfan
M:38
W:33
M:8 yrs
T:10 yrs
Bomb: Dec '08
Separated: 4/18/09
Divorce: 8/28/09
XW Affair began: April 08