Deployed Soldier/Father needs your help

[MichelleLT]

I totally understand multiple As being a complete dealbreaker for you. It's the most traumatic thing a partner can do. It took me a long time to even figure out if I could learn how to forgive it.

No one here will blame you if you are done.

Use the time left in your deployment to not think about it.

If you are still certain when you go home, if your W has not managed to take actions that convince you things could be better than they were before if you give her another chance, then finish it.

But never stop working on yourself.