Yea, i made that mistake already, moved out a mth ago. Why? Because this is what she wanted, the space. I did all these things to make her happy, didnt get me anywhere. I have a millions things running through my head right now. What if I did this differently, what if I called her bluff last month and just said 'ok' with going on with the D as planned for early Jan versus moving out and giving her the space to see what happens. I thought I could beat the odds, people told me what would happen, I didnt want to believe it would. I need to get myself to the point where I can tell myself I did everything I could and she is just and ungrateful person. One thing that I have going against me is I really believe my W has some type of mental disorder. When she told me she "broke" back in late July, mentally she did. Things are not right up there. I even had several people tell me she has signs of BPD.
Based on your sig, are you with your W again?
Last edited by brknheart; 01/20/1007:18 PM.
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M-11y
D talk-7/28/09 W Moved out-9/01/09 W wants D-9/22/09 W doesnt want D-12/1/09 W Moved in/I Moved out-12/21/09 W wants D-1/19/10 D Final-04/15/10
