H4L he is there in MC at the moment, celebrate that and dont look for the downsides of him being there, because if youre looking for the downsides again your tantamount to treading on your eggshells which you are NOT going to do!
I cant quite put this into words so bear with me, I wonder if you fear something is it because of where youve been or where its going.. It could be either or a combination of both.. H fears going back to panicky H4L but the fear of going forward to H4L? I wonder is it bigger or smaller, personally I'd say smaller because you cant be worse than before or can you? lol
The one thing people on here dont get it is you need time, nothing happens over night, people want it too but it wont, my sitch is probably considered speedy and maybe so for Rocked, but that was still four months odd to get where we are, if the cause of discontent was bigger than say someone elses its going to take longer, someone on here once said it takes a month for every year of marriage to get back to the starting point, good job I was a speedy one I have died waiting for H to come back after thirty odd months lol! Ooh where did that all come from I dunno?
Keep looking forward to where you want things to get too and pray your socks off while youre at it!
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Once lost but now found and happily married again!
