OK, I'll skip the DECEASED part.

And I didn't mean to falsely claim to be part of the great country of Oh Canada. I am a proud resident of the Great Republic of Vermont. Close enough, no? Except for the health care part, sigh.

Jeans and tight t-shirt? is that all I gotta do?

and for the men--faded, well-fitting jeans and a white button down. Black casual slip on shoes. Does it for me every time.


Me: 44
Him: 42
Together: 23 years; never married
Bomb: August 1, 2009
Affair since May 2009
Walk away; no conversation; no process