Oh and thanks Sugar and Spice for your encouragement! Believe me I get depressed every now and then but am just trying to be consistent with my plan to not be as present. It did take a couple of months after I started my other changes before he commented on them so it might take another couple of months for hm to notice I'm not around as much.
and in the meantime am still losing weight and looking better and better so by the time he notices that he misses me he might be noticing that I am also looking like my old sexy self!

Last edited by newmama; 01/20/10 07:06 PM.
me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004