That's how I was too, T2. In fact I look back to the way I treated my H when we first separated and I just shake my head! I am so much calmer and more peacful now....I like it better but unfortunately it won't save my M!
Happiness is like a butterfly: the more you chase it, the more it will elude you, but if you turn your attention to other things, it will come and sit softly on your shoulder.... (thoreau)
