Mixed Signals or is this Limbo Land

[Cie la vie]

s4h,

I think you hit the nail on the head. My W is certainly adrift in a fantasy land of some kind and is in denial about how the demolition of our family will negatively affect the children. She comes across as perfectly lucid in conversation with me and I assume with others but it is her decision to destroy the family to pursue the OM and a single life style (even though we have young children, a great home and she is 47)that demonstrate a disconnect from reality.

I identify my W as a combination WAW/MLC victim. However the real victims are the LBS and children in most of these cases. Unfortunatley it appears these kinds of sitches must run there course before the WAS can come to realize the tragic consequences their behavior has wrought.