help!!!!

i really have no idea what to do in this situation - wife is visably upset, crying and just lying on bed (kind of like i was before i found this place) - if i walk by she just looks at me, and says "what?" - i just told her our daughter had lunch and i was going back to work and left.

i do not want to fall into an argument trap but it kills me to see her like this - trying to keep my emotions from taking over - but doesn't this make me look like i don't care in here eyes?

very confused!!!!!


M-37 W-36
S-11, S-9, D-4
PA exposed 3/13/10
10/19/10 moving on...
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