Don't know where to post this.

[loveherstill]

She just called and said S4 got sick at school and she came home with him. He attends the Preschool she works at. She was very friendly and upbeat and wanted to visit for a minute. I listened we shared a laugh or two and then I told her I had to get back to what I was doing and hung up the phone.

She is initiating quite a bit of contact at the moment and I am not falling all over myself for her.

I have started to act confident again. I have told her how I feel and given her the email that was posted earlier. Those things do not need to be said again.

I am only acting confident in my ability to be ok with or without her and she is beginning pursuit.

I will not ignore her but I will not fall all over myself for her either. Kind, loving, but confident in myself is what I am going for right now and she is pursuing me.

I still need to keep from hitting her too hard until her Feb 3rd IC date as right now she is exited to begin and I don't want her to back out.

Any thoughts on this course of action?