I should probably 2x4 myself for sending an email to my stbxw that I just did...

Stbxw had emailed me about the other party, and I had asked the previous week if she just wanted to keep d9 so I didn't have to drive her all over the eastern seaboard of MA for my two days that I would have her.

In her email yesterday, she ended it with a statement that d9 would rather not go to the party then miss a weekend with me.

That did not set well with me overnight, and I kept coming back to it over and over.

I don't need to be reminded that I don't get to see my d9 everyday like I would like, but that decision was taken from me when you asked for D, stbxw. I have taken my d9 every free day I could since moving out, and have not had so much as a day of free time for myself, unlike you who is now living single on the weekends at my expense.

Just venting a bit, but I decided to email her back, and simply stated:

I do not need to be reminded that I don't get to spend as much time with d9 as I would like, and that if stbxw has plans herself to just say so.

That may be the wrong thing to do, and to antagonistic, but I don't care, nor care if she is pissed.

2x4 away on me all...


M: 41
STBXW: 41
D: 9
Bomb: 4/26/09

On board the D train now..

"Suffering is when we try to change what we cannot."