I should probably 2x4 myself for sending an email to my stbxw that I just did...
Stbxw had emailed me about the other party, and I had asked the previous week if she just wanted to keep d9 so I didn't have to drive her all over the eastern seaboard of MA for my two days that I would have her.
In her email yesterday, she ended it with a statement that d9 would rather not go to the party then miss a weekend with me.
That did not set well with me overnight, and I kept coming back to it over and over.
I don't need to be reminded that I don't get to see my d9 everyday like I would like, but that decision was taken from me when you asked for D, stbxw. I have taken my d9 every free day I could since moving out, and have not had so much as a day of free time for myself, unlike you who is now living single on the weekends at my expense.
Just venting a bit, but I decided to email her back, and simply stated:
I do not need to be reminded that I don't get to spend as much time with d9 as I would like, and that if stbxw has plans herself to just say so.
That may be the wrong thing to do, and to antagonistic, but I don't care, nor care if she is pissed.
2x4 away on me all...
M: 41 STBXW: 41 D: 9 Bomb: 4/26/09
On board the D train now..
"Suffering is when we try to change what we cannot."