It sounds like you are on the right track.

Now you need to be patient and watch the changes that she is making.

When it comes down to it, she knows that she will have to give OM up for good at some point. The MC and the IC will both tell her this.

Me: 44, Wife: 39
M: 17 years T: 20 years
Bomb on 08/25/09
1/13/10: MC started
1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs
8/28/10: Wife moved out
No talk of D, no movement

"Every day is another chance to get it right."