Going straight forward...antlers 6th thread.

[iwantittowork]

Hey Ant, I don't think I misunderstood you, but also realize my post was a bit aggressive sounding, and that was not my intention.

I understand where you are at, but I really would hope you would work on your thoughts regarding this, such as:

Regret does shadow your life with a persistent, painful message of "what could have been".

Yes, understood, but it' recurring in your sitch and thoughts now, and you simply MUST get by this. Acknowledge that emotion, and then move past it, or it will permeate everything you do, your interaction with you stbxw and kids, etc.

I hope you understand where I am approaching this from. It's hard but liberating to move beyond it. Once you can, you can work from a place of health and happiness that will then be what permeates your relationships, etc.