TrentC,

She has not asked yet what it will take to work it out. She is talking about steps she will need to take if she gets to the point she wants to work things out.

She has listed friends that were enemies of the marriage that need to be thrown under the bus and has started to slowly distance herself from them.

She has not checked her voicemail on her phone since Jan 14th.

She has started to ignore OM some but they still communicate through text (she is spending more time talking to other friends than OM)

She has stated that she will have to change phone numbers and give up her private phone.

She knows most of what to do, but she is talking about it more lately. I listen and validate.

She has IC scheduled for Feb 3rd (first appointment) and we have MC scheduled for Jan 26th (4th appointment).


Me 33
WAW 32
S12
S4
S2
M12
T14
Not wanting to ever give up.