I apologize if I offended anyone. I know how much work everyone on this board is doing, and I will continue to work on myself as well.
We understand; all of us have been lost and hurting, and many of us still are.
Honestly? I'd love to see you beat the odds and rebuild your marriage. But I also know that life isn't a romantic comedy, and the guy doesn't always get the girl in the end.
Sometimes there's too much pain, too much anger, and too much resentment. You can only put up with so much before you feel you have to say "enough!"
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement