I'm gonna share something with you that I think about when I have those kind of days.....
I am not always going to be a husband..
I am not always going to be an employee..
I am not always going to be a boss...
I am not always going to be poor, or rich....
I am not always going to be young...
I am not always going to be old either...
What I am going to be , however, is a Father....forever.
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The thing that I guess I haven't liked is she has been dictating everything-- what happens on the weekends, planning ahead... all those things.. so its been quite the opposite about how I think she should be spending her time.
Yea...That must suck....Sometimes that kind of projection makes you wonder how SHE felt all those years YOU were away, and maybe YOU didn't notice that she has been doing that anyway ?
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I do agree that the kids are very important but don't I need to feel satisfied and happy with my work in order to be the best dad for them?
Personally ? I can't think of any more rewarding work than to be a Dad....