what perhaps bothers me more than anything is I would be making a career choice based on chasing after my WAW-- and of course to be with the boys
Try switching these two around. You may or may not regain your wife, but you will certainly make a difference in your sons' lives by being a more constant presence in their lives.
I know it's a hard decision right now, but remember, it doesn't have to be the final one. You may have many more career opportunities in the future.
M 65 H 64 T 39 & M 36 @ S 12/08 Two Ds
Do you know that the harder thing to do and the right thing to do are usually the same thing? Nothing that has meaning is easy. ~ The Weather Man