Deployed Soldier/Father needs your help

[TrentC]

You have every right to want and get a divorce, and a fulfilling happy life can await you there. But some of what you just said sounds like Walk Away Spouse logic to me. Marriage isn't a stick of gum. Love becomes a choice when you get married and it's up to both of you to do the work to reap the benefits. Don't forget that your W will always be in your life because she's the mother of your kids.

It's also worthwhile to point out that she's apparently gone from "I can't wait to be divorced from you" to "I don't know what I want."

There could be a number of reasons for this. She could be responding to the going dark and LRT. She could just be between OMs. But this is a huge change in her behavior.