just read what your atty said. that sucks that you'd have to spend lots of money on that. they should have worded that better from the beginning, that's not your fault.

let us know how the convo goes.

I would definitely have the convo before garnishing takes place, and IMHO I would still write him a letter about your steps to keep baby first and make everything easier on him and you in regards to the garnishment. of course it's easier to pretend like nothing is happening, but there will be a huge blow when he gets those papers, and I think it shows courage and respect to tell him beforehand. again, that's just MHO

Me 33 H 34 S9 S3
M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs)
EA/PA 1/2006
DB 5/2006
H wants D 6/2006
H wants ME 8/2006
H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006
H erased OW off phone! 2/2007

"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."