It's like a stick of gum. After you chew it awhile, it loses it's flavor, doesn't taste so good, and then you spit it out.
Well, I'm spitting it out.
SD,
You have every right to want and get a divorce, and a fulfilling happy life can await you there. But some of what you just said sounds like Walk Away Spouse logic to me. Marriage isn't a stick of gum. Love becomes a choice when you get married and it's up to both of you to do the work to reap the benefits. Don't forget that your W will always be in your life because she's the mother of your kids.
Again, you have every right to the divorce, but just food for thought. Being with another woman will almost certainly have a new set of challenges which could be easier, the same, or even harder on you.
Age: 28 Wife's Age: 28 Relationship: 10 Years (dated on and off) Married: Less than one year Seperated: 1.75 years, finally served with D 4/30/2011
