if you EVER Worry about losing custody to him, you are nuts.
yes, you would think and hope this, but you really NEVER know. I know of people who went to jail, and still have their kids...and they were doing meth. you hear crazy stories of someone accused of beating their child, and they don't take the children away and the next thing you know the child is dead. I wouldn't take this lightly, and I think for SO2 to go to the atty to try to take care of this legally is still an okay decision. She's already been doing this for how many months, so if she has the patience, then there is nothing wrong with that IMHO.
But I definitely agree, that 4 times a week doing this, that is crazy and ridiculous. I had no idea it was that many times, geez.
I still say IMHO, while your trying to do something legally, I would tell H that if he does not contact you in the first 30 minutes, that is his admission that he has not made plans to come over and that you will not be waiting.
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."
