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[K4D]

I think its call HONESTY. Its something that successful marriages thrive on. People who are sneaky and lie and hide things are usually considered untrustworthy. Something else that you rely on in your marital partner is being able to TRUST them.

I don't see much difference in this then your wife hiding her man friend. You lie. She lies. You hide. She hides. You have secrets. She has secrets. And you want to reconcile?

At what point do you flip back on the integrity switch?

SM, I would normally not think anything of it. But because she made such an issue of career stability, this won't look good in her eyes. I don't see how being honest about this situation helps my sitch out given her feelings on it.

What am I gaining by reconfirming to her that my job is not stable?

Kevin