Can I save my marriage?

[TrentC]

I had to steal this from another thread, it was so good.

I want you to think about this question really hard:

Who do you have control over?

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After you have that question answered, think about this question, think about this one really hard:

How hard is it for you to make that person change their behavior?

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Now, how hard do you think it is for that person to change someone else's behavior?

The three options that I presented to you all have one thing in common: they involve definite action initiated by you.

If you can come up with another option that doesn't involve waiting for him to magically change the crappy, entitled attitude he's had since September, I'm all ears.