I know this is not DBing at it's best however this is what I sent to H after he told me my S needed his guidance and he has to many opportunites to get in trouble here with the lack of parental guidance...
It has nothing to do with me wanting S to live in your den of sin and everything to do with the fact that you singlehandedly turned him against me...
No it won't take a couple of weeks, it is already done once I send the information to the PO...
After last night I want it done now...
I don't need the cops here anymore because your son is doing everything he can to get out of here and for whatever reason he thinks living with you will be nothing but shopping trips and no one to tell him what to do.
After the stunt he pulled last night he is damn lucky he isn't sitting in XXX.
Don't you dare say he needs your guidance - (You haven't offered these boys anything in the last 11 months and now you want to be the good guy and clean up the mess you created) because I have been doing just fine since you abandoned your family - You have taken everything these boys have ever known and for what? Your own selfish wants and then you actually question why they are so angry and messed up inside - You should know the feeling or are you still denying that you can remember?
The only guidance you have to offer him is lack of values, loyalty, respect, dignity and morals.
This is the last thing I want for our son.
If he would listen he wouldn't be in trouble however since you set your claws in him he has gone out of his way to get out of here.
May All Who Seek To Take My Life Be Put To Shame And Confusion; May All Who Desire My Ruin Be Turned Back In Disgrace. ~Psalm 40:14~