I am trying my best. Perhaps at least mentally it will allow me to detatch if I have brought up the D word... maybe that will help.
Absolutely won't....
and I'd suggest not speaking that word unless that is without a doubt what you want. I spoke it, and that is exactly where I found myself....D'd. There isn't anything you can say to "snap" her out of this or to move you further along. No shortcuts.
You can't fix this Doc. She has to.
You can help, and by help I mean lesson the severity of all this by your actions. Which is what you need to get a grasp on. Focus on you.
