No. Consequences for their actions. Do not shield them from that.

Not appologizing for exposure or speaking the truth in a kind yet direct way.

Your marriage can handle the anger. Your marriage cannot handle an affair.

Think about it.

He can spin his lies when confronted. He needs to see how this affects not just you. It affects many members of the family.
Fully see the disappointment. Hear it in his voice.

This is a consequence of his action.

Do not shield him from this. Respect his actions. Allow him to be held accountable.

Do this out of love and respect.

It will be up to him to rebuild that respect between the two of them.

Do not support adultry in any form.

Buy not saying anything you are agreeing to it.

Flowers always make people better, happier, and more helpful; they are sunshine, food and medicine for the soul.
unconditional love is awesome!