Originally Posted By: dburt
Do not let her know that you have the book, this is your playbook, she will think everything you do is out of the book and therefore trying to manipulate her into staying.
Burt


she already knows i have "a" book as the only time i can read it is later at night when the house is quiet - she came down stairs the other night as i was reading on the couch (go ahead a laugh at this part) first time in probably 10 years she saw me reading a book.

SDFoundGirl - i will continue to work on me, is it okay to tell her that when she questions what i am doing? Let her know i need to fix me?

on the other hand i see her sad a sulking and my natural instinct is to comfort her - but i resist as i feel this may ruin any progress i have made changing the situation (breaking the "more of the same" routine)....does that sound mean of me?


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