Still Wandering

[NOMAD]

Mrs. NOMAD is still very much on the fence. Midway through Retro she became flooded, fearing that she was being controlled to become a conservative, boring, god fearing houswife, her worst nightmare. She became very anxious and insisted that she needed a separation from me. We talked about it and she settled down for the rest of the weekend. 3 of her close GFs are now separated, she says it's helping 2 the other one is headed for divorce court. She says she gets alot of good advice from other people.

I found keys to a PO Box and safety deposit box. She's probably stashing cash and receiving confidential correspondence.

Should I confront her, bring it up in MC or let it ride? I'm very concerned about our finances. She's always handled our finances up until recently when I've become more involved to know whats where.