Hugs Lola. And thanks for coming by. I'm reading 'Language of Letting Go' right now, and I'm finding it helpful as I begin my new life. Someday, I'll need to forgive. But today is not that day. Distance. Time. Healing. Personal fulfillment. Then, someday, maybe forgiveness. Compassion. I will always appreciate the fact that without him, I would not be the Bears' mother. And yet, if it all went away tomorrow, I would survive. You will too. It's what we do. love, Goldey