New to this Community seeking advice

[JR09]

Better outlook this morning.

Gotta get back on that saddle and keep moving. Many DB experts on this board keep reemphasizing the point that there really is no point in trying to figure out what the WAS thinks or may do. The key is to refocus my attention on what I DO to regain my mental, emotional, and physical balance.

Strange how when my W left, it really tore me apart. It took time to rebuild the new me, but I found out it IS possible to do it, step by step, with a lot of faith, willpower, and a change in attitude. I don't know about other posters here, but I needed to cast away all the bitterness, anger, resentment, even hate, that I harbored after my W left. It can really destroy you if you don't get a handle on it.

Carlos said it correctly: "Wasted Energy". How true that is. It took me a long time to stop wasting energy on why, where, when, what about my W. Maybe I still do it on occasion, but I have learned to rebound quickly to a better mental and emotional place. Anyway. My 2 cents this morning.

JR09