My question is, has this been discussed with your wife at all.
If the separation is being done stragically to get that spark back, I understand.
Burt
You talking about the seperation? Yes we are in the begining stages of that. Alot of details to work out first.
Have I thought this might cause a sprark in her , yes, I would be lying if I had not but its not why I am doing this. I truely believe that with me continuing to live in the same house with her and sleeping in the same bed with her its going to produce more of the same. Nothing, and that is not acceptable to me any more.