Steve, I hear what you are saying. The only issue is some of the thing she says "this is about trust, that takes time", "i love you", "i am committed to the marriage", "if the counsellor told me to move back in, I would", "we will give this another shot", "i am forgive you but I am hurt and just need some time to heal".
DB Rule - believe nothing of what you hear and 50% of what you see.
In any case, I am GAL. However, I am no where near ready to date right now. Although, I am getting in really good shape and have been noticing a lot of double takes from the opposite sex lately.