I dont understand where all this comes from. I think just as we do with our Best friends we come here to worry and say everything that bothers us because we feel safe and can be honest.
BUT still, I dont see where all this concern comes from? Ali's BF has asked her to marry him twice so far if I can recall, they own houseS together,they've been together for 11 YEARS with an 18 months break which they overcame even though there were no kids or other obligations to cloud their brains. They are together now because of FREE WILL and conscious decision and not because of money/kids/etc etc.
I think THAT is WONDERFUL!!! When I saw them together, I realised what Ali kept saying about them being so connected etc etc. A chance for them to go another crisis is always possible and probably will always be. But now Ali KNOWS that. Right Ali?
If it is early or not for a baby, I think that is a personal decision. I wonder if I am missing something because I do care for Ali very much and if there is something there that is alarming I hope someone points it out to me...
Ali, I hope you udenrstand, all people here are reaching out to help... K