Kevin this may be a situation where you are forced to do what is best for you and your girls now independent of the W! May be a great opportunity to exercise those independent legs!
I really hope the job hunt goes well for you and you find something even better than before!
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!