well it appears to me that if Tim has been on the up and up with us from the beginning and he realized he was once an ass and treated her bad but has changed for the better and their relationship has been good over the last year or so...and they appear to have drawn closer.....she has even said she wants his company..seeks him out and it sounds like he is her BFF...then

I think she/he needs to look elsewhere for the reason for her lack of sexual desire for Tim...she's either at the age (40's) or approaching the age where some stranghe things are taking place for a woman..

Of course I'm not a doctor..but I am staying at a Holiday Inn when I go out of town this weekend!!