"If you understand my feelings what do you propose or how do you propose to meet my needs as stated above.
MRS OP"
Sorry, I'm trying to catch up. What is she refering to "as stated above." ? Has she clearly stated her needs?
Was it this?
Originally Posted By: OldPilot
I realize that in choosing the direction for our life I participated by letting you for the last 2 years and before to keep living in the same way. This was because of my belief of how a R should be but it created more resentment and anger in me rather than improving the sich. I need to know that I can count on you to step up and become a contributing member in this R. This is a deal breaker for me.
I can only assume that as you are not willing to discuss this that there is no way for my needs in this R to be considered and that you have move on.
