after reading what u linked to me i am in shambles...for the fact that i thought i had this pieced together. truth is...seems like this started long b4 i believed it did...
divorce was brought up several years ago,the anger,depression withdraw and money spending has been going on all along...especially the last 2 years...
when h moved out...it was to fix himself...get it together. still seems to be true...everything to him is going back to simple...tons of concerns over money...trying to do right...has even mentioned bankruptcy and starting over...
please help me here...although i understand much much more about this mlc...i need some more help to put it in some sort of perspective...
thanks lost
me 39 h 38 kids 9 and 6 h left 8/9/09 loving and devoted wife and mother still going...10 months later...