Hey T2 ~ Looks like you have ALOT of people pulling for you!!!
I hope the trip goes well and that once you've vented here, you'll give your H the "benefit of the doubt" and relax and enjoy yourself with no expectations!!!
HAVE FUN!!!!!!!!
Happiness is like a butterfly: the more you chase it, the more it will elude you, but if you turn your attention to other things, it will come and sit softly on your shoulder.... (thoreau)