it is sad for our lkids as time goes on , it seems worse for them having to oiece together the information that the WAS is a totally unavailable parent and deficient in many ways and in reality these kids know they have only one parent who is there and thsat is sad especially for many years they had 2 but hopefully they will be able to mature without major scars again it is so out of our hands I worry more about them as time goes on as for us many of us will find our way they are left with the scars//maybe forever caused by their dads peace
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