Trying to move on

[awest1217]

I feel for you, but if she doesn't want your help, you can't force it, which is hard. I know things are definitely headed towards D, but you never know. Just stick to being polite and kind to W when you do talk and who knows maybe before she actually files there will be a change of heart. I know more than anyone that it is hard to believe because I right now don't believe my H will ever change, but the papers have not been filed and maybe the more she sees how divorce really is, the more she will realize it is not what she wants.