There are no quick or easy fixes to these things. We've tried to tell you that.
This divorce busting is not for the faint of heart.
Maybe your marriage isn't worth it to you. Maybe your wife doesn't mean that much to you. Maybe months of difficulty, hardship, hurting, and separation now are not worth it to you, even if it means restoration at some point.
I'm guessing that none of that's true, but...eye opener maybe?
Jack is right. Your problem is that you are still focused on the mess ending. Common and natural. But it's a killer to making it thru this and still having a shot at a marriage.
So what happened for real over the weekend? Some new revelation? Because you got quiet for a few days, and now you're "just not sure I can do this." I call bs on that.
You went in to this weekend expecting to get it all fixed. You went in to the weekend hoping that your wife was coming, that she was going to fall over you in love again, and that things would be fixed by Monday.
Right?
And when it didn't happen, when she actually left again without even suggesting that things were improving....well, you emotionally tanked.
And then you got pissed.
Come on Bradley. You're a bright guy. This isn't all that hard to get the hang of.
In my opinion, you're still a little bit torn. You want your wife and marriage again, but you want it on your terms. There's some reason that you've hesitated in deciding on your kids or your job. See, for me? It's a no brainer - you only get one set of kids, and eventually they grow up and are gone. Career and job be damned, my kids come first. I'm not hearing that from you, at least not without a "yeah, but..."
Somethings not right here....
Blessings,
Bill
"Don't tell me the sky is the limit when there are footprints on the moon."
