I am happy to read your update. Sounds like things are going very well and progressing....s-l-o-w-l-y....which is perfect. this way you both have time to think and make all the right moves towards reconciling.
It must feel good to see him finally coming back to his real self. Keep doing what you are doing....it's working.
It was a very,very good thing for H to see the former OW treat him so impersonal and rude. He will only realize that R was a mistake by viewing her true colors in person. Hurt as it might, it's good for him.
The best part is you were there for him when it happened for once. I hope you simply acknowledged his question by saying something like "yes H, I saw".
Your H is coming to the realization also that you are there for him "no matter what". You are the one who has stood by and been patient and loving and forgiving.
He knows where he belongs kissak.....with you.
Keep taking care....you are doing great!!!
Sanderika
ME48/H48MLC T 33y M 28y S16 OW 8/7/05 Bomb 8/16/05 Sep 9/05 H f'd D 10/3/08 D pp'd 1/20/09,7/24/09,12/4/09 D dismissed 2/5/10 H served me D papers again 9/4/10 D dismissed 9/26/11
