Where in the world did that come from !!!

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So while I was having my nice 1 on 1 with IC, 3 kids were getting free fillings @ Dental Surgery where W works - she will walk out and tear our family apart, but still make sure the kids have nice teeth - how sweet.

Anyway she invited them over for dinner Friday night at BIL's (bearing in mind she hasn't been there for a week as far as they know). They said would think about it.

They told me when I got home and I just asked each of them if they wanted to go, all said NO.

Will be a simple text to her from them saying same as before "No Thanks".

I really felt like adding "None of the kids want to see you knowing what they know about sitch now, They will seriously disown you when they find out about A and living with him", but I won't do that, yet.

I did read over in the Infidelity forums though about a sitch where exposing to the (almost adult) kids and them confronting WW stopped the affair in it's tracks and brought WAW back.

Maybe food for thought.

Anyway the 2 interesting thing to come out of IC session were:

1. Even if WAW were to have an 'epiphany' and want to come back, would you really want her back, and could you have her back ? Way too early to think about that yet but it does raise some reservations in the back of my mind.

2. Get a Life for yourself !!!!