Sorry you find yourself here after such a short time being married.
My whole story is in part because of my H bi-polar disorder & being an addict. If your H is not on his meds and refuses to get himself together chemically, theres not alot you can do.
The ups and downs are really hard and its extremely painful to watch someone you love go through it and put you through it as well.
My advice is to get yourself some IC and try and urge your H to seek professional help to balance out his chemicals. Other than that, hang in there, take care of yourself and wait it out. Bi-polar people have mood swings and without medication, the swings happen when they happen.
Sorry I couldn't do more to help.
Originally Posted By: dbs
When do those of us dealing with these type of issues say whoa? And how?
That is a question that only you can answer. I am an advocate of M, but I also know you can only control you. So I would suggest some IC for you as well to gain the insight you need to answer those questions for you.
Your both in my prayers.
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option
