"The only way I can deal with it is to get him out of the house.'"
Okay first off, there's nothing wrong with you. It's all her. If she sees you doing the work, she has no one else to blame but herself. So she doesn't want to do that, so instead she continues to blame you by saying that YOU need to leave the house.
Well first thing to do is DON'T. DO NOT move out! She has the issue, then SHE needs to leave if she "can't deal". Why should you.
That's the first thing that you need to do is to get the respect back from her. Stand your ground and protect what's yours.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
