Hopingforhope,

IMHO what Cutterbug says is pretty much what I think Puppy would say. Gather your intel and then let her know WHAT you know (not HOW you know) and set your boundaries.

She will do whatever she is going to do either way and you can't control that, but you can stand up for yourself and your M and let her know what you are/aren't willing to accept. Then stick to it.

If you have a game plan in place before you expose to her and others, you will have a better idea of how to manuver(sp?) throughout the process.

Wish I would have listened to Pup...


M:39
H:39
K:S14;D8
T:22yr
M:15yrs
S:12/28/07 EA/PA
3/14/08 OW preg
11/17/08 born
12/12/08 his
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Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option