Originally Posted By: narwhal
I'm despairing about how I can make her care. She seems to have written me off completely.


You can't make her care.

She may be frustrated any angry that you're changing now, when it's (almost?) too late, but that will subside. The important thing will be, what will she find when she does start to care?

Me: 44, Wife: 39
M: 17 years T: 20 years
Bomb on 08/25/09
1/13/10: MC started
1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs
8/28/10: Wife moved out
No talk of D, no movement

"Every day is another chance to get it right."